Late 80s – Bihar: There was an ongoing rate
list for dowry as per the jobs held and salaries earned. I remember that lowest
in the rate list was that of a bank PO. The rate then was a whooping Rs.7
lakhs, unthinkable at that time. Of course if you belonged to a higher caste,
you could attach a premium and nobody questioned.
2004 – South India: The concept of Indians
backpacking was not really known then; so my travel partner and I were often
mistaken to be foreigners. The first question people asked us after clarifying
that we were Indians was, “What is your caste?”. We were accorded quick and
good service because my travel partner was a Brahmin. Naturally, we took
advantage of it.
2009 – Mumbai: An employee of a well known education
NGO got super excited when she found out that my colleague is married to a
Brahmin. She asked me enthusiastically if I was a Brahmin too.
2011 – West Rajasthan: We travelled to a
village on work where we had lunch in the house of an adivasi family (one of
the best meals I have had so far but that’s a different story). We invited our
Muslim driver to join us but he consistently refused saying he already had his
meal. Later we realised that he didn’t want to have food in an adivasi home.
Village elders who usually form the Jati or Caste Panchayats (in Rajasthan). |
2011 – Jodhpur: We had stopped for food at
a roadside dhaba run by a Rajput, who told us with some pride in his voice that
all people including dalits and adivasis are welcome to eat at his Dhaba. A bit
later he adds that he however will never eat at a dhaba run by an adivasi or a
dalit.
2011
– Melghat: A tribal village in a forest had been assigned an Aanganwadi worker
who threw her weight around because she belonged to a ‘higher’ caste. The result
was that none of the families sent their children to the Aanganwadi resulting
in waste of food every day.
2012 – Bhopal: A friend has a neighbour who
belongs to the Scheduled Tribes. She asked my friend if her domestic help could
also work for her. When my friend approached the help with the request, she flatly
refused. The maid, also belonging to a Scheduled Tribe told my friend that she
can’t work for the family because they belonged to a lower stratum than her.
An adivasi woman from a forest village in Maharashtra |
2013 – Gadchiroli: Aanganwadi worker
approaches me and asks, “Madam, Aapka surname?” (to figure out my community and
caste). I tell her only my first name instead.
2013 – Delhi: An employee of a rights based
organisation is heard asking another colleague her caste.
2014 – Pune: A well educated,
professionally successful girl works in one of the best consultancy firms. She
is 35 and single. Despite her background she has not been able to find a match
because she belongs to a Scheduled Tribe and nobody from the ‘higher’ castes
wants to marry an ST (as told to her).
Across India: Areas in most villages are
segregated as per community and caste. Due to reservation, many villages now have
SC / Dalit sarpanches but they are treated just as nominal heads. The
Up-Sarpanch from a higher caste holds the main power and people listen to him.
If a Sarpanch is a woman from a lower caste, then she doesn’t have much of a
chance of being heard at all.
Its a power game mostly – this desperate
need to somehow feel superior in the absence of any other way to prove their
superiority. Proving that you are better than others through deeds and actions
is hard work and also subjective, hence its so much easier to fall back on your
superiority by birth. Power comes easy.
Ambedkar was as usual right, social reforms
are necessary if the country has to progress on all fronts. Abolition of caste
so far has been neatly done on paper. The politics now behind the caste system
(despite the best intentions of affirmative action) will ensure that it remains
deeply entrenched in our society. Even after so many years of actually seeing
and experiencing the fallout of some decisions by our founding leaders, we as a
nation do not have the guts to debate again on this. Liberty, Equality and
Fraternity like Secular are just mere words without meaning in our Constitution.
And since we do not have the ability to
understand and follow the essence of our Constitution, we will continue to
remain Un-Indians.
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Annihilation
of Caste: An interesting read, more in the perspective of how Gandhi defended the caste and varna system.
Ah, what rich traditions, what sophisticated systems, what beautiful, elaborate social mores! Don't you just lurve Bharatiya Sanskriti?
ReplyDeleteMy Bihari pal informs me that the dowry rate card is published periodically in a local newspaper. It has been updated to include, after due deliberations to ascertain the state of the industry, appropriate rates for new professions like BPO and software.
Jai Mata Di.
ohhh really? I thought it existed but underground since dowry is a crime by law. sigh, but Bihar is socially a very special region, things work exactly the opposite here than the rest of the country.
DeleteNothing is underground. The Delhi Police Women's cell advised a woman to simply hit her husband everytime he hit her. And then coolly closed the file. The MLA couldn't even understand what the fuss was about. "Arre madam, ye aapka aadmi hai, itna kya hogaya?".
DeleteI remember reading a story in the NG magazine about a survey done on the condition of women in rural India. One of the questions asked to women in Bihar (I kid you not): "Is a woman smarter or a mouse?" and a majority said, 'a mouse'. They're conditioned that way!!